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If you have been reading the Bad Girls Bible Blow Job Guide from the first chapter, you’ll know that there are many important, but thankfully easy-to-master aspects of an incredible blow job.

I’m talking about beginning it smoothly (Chapter 1 will show you how)…to using techniques to intensify his pleasure (Chapter 2 and Chapter 3 cover a vast number of excellent oral sex techniques).

If you have been reading the Bad Girls Bible Blow Job Guide from the first chapter, you’ll know that there are many important, but thankfully easy-to-master aspects of an incredible blow job.

I’m talking about beginning it smoothly (Chapter 1 will show you how)…to using techniques to intensify his pleasure (Chapter 2 and Chapter 3 cover a vast number of excellent oral sex techniques).

…to finishing him off in a way to makes his eyes roll back into his head with intense pleasure (Chapter 4 covers finishing him off in detail).

If you have been reading the Bad Girls Bible Blow Job Guide from the first chapter, you’ll know that there are many important, but thankfully easy-to-master aspects of an incredible blow job.

I’m talking about beginning it smoothly (Chapter 1 will show you how)…to using techniques to intensify his pleasure (Chapter 2 and Chapter 3 cover a vast number of excellent oral sex techniques).

…to finishing him off in a way to makes his eyes roll back into his head with intense pleasure (Chapter 4 covers finishing him off in detail).

Podcast: 11 Vital Blow Job Tips

In addition to reading the guide below, I hope you will listen to this podcast I recorded that will teach you exactly how to give your man the perfect blow job. I also cover the horrendous mistakes women make BEFORE they even begin their blow job.

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Think of these techniques like over-arching principles or ideas that you should keep in mind when going down on your man to ensure that you always leave him completely and utterly fulfilled. So you can apply each of these principles to a any oral sex technique in the Blow Job Guide.

But there are even more oral sex techniques (click here to skip down to them now) you should be using to keep things fresh and fun for both of you. While the previous chapters mentioned earlier all cover very specific things you can do to make him twitch in beautiful agony, this chapter is going to cover a slightly different set of oral sex techniques.

Now let’s start learning some fun oral sex techniques you can unleash on your man!

For example, you could use this sucking technique on your man and then apply one of the following principles on him like making it super slow and sensual or making it extra wet and sloppy or trying it in a place you’ve never given him a blow job before.

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Super Slow & Sensual

Slowing down is a powerful way to boost your man’s pleasure by delaying his build up to orgasm. It will also make him blow a bigger load. Instead of performing oral sex on him as you normally do, completely slow down your movements to a point where you are barely moving at all.

Slowing down like this has a strange effect on him. It will automatically feel more sensual and intense for him, and he will have enough time to feel your lips and tongue gradually move over every millimeter of his dick. Slowing down works especially well if your man suffers from premature ejaculation.

When I say “Super Slow,” I mean that you are going to kiss him, lick him and suck him at a snails pace. The added benefit of this is that it makes giving him oral sex a whole lot easier!

Wet & Sloppy

It’s hard to describe why giving your boyfriend extra wet and sloppy oral sex works so well. I wish I could give you a perfect explanation, but the closest I can get is that it feels more “silky” and smooth. You may be thinking that this answer isn’t as precise as the rest of my advice on oral sex, but it’s the truth. Just try it out on your man and see for yourself how much he appreciates it.

There are a few different ways to increase the wetness and “sloppiness” of your blow jobs…

Lube – There is an enormous range of lubes that you can use when giving oral sex to increase the wetness, just make sure that you choose one that is “edible” so that you get to enjoy it as much as he does and don’t have to deal with any unpleasant tastes.

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The Right Kind Of Condiment – There are a few condiments that you can use that not only taste great but can make your BJ a whole lot wetter. These include cream, maple syrup, honey and even chocolate syrup.

Chewing Gum – Right before going down on him, try chewing a piece of gum as it stimulates saliva production naturally.

Deep Throating – When you deep throat your man and stimulate your gag reflex, you naturally and quickly produce large quantities of saliva. While it might not be the most pleasant feeling for you, it can be a useful shortcut.

Enthusiasm

Enthusiasm is a key to pleasure. Many ignore it, but it's easy and effective. It boosts your partner's enjoyment immensely. Husbands can also use it on you.

Remember the heat when your partner anticipates intimacy? Your husband feels the same when you eagerly undress him and passionately engage in a blow job.

This principle applies to your entire sex life. To add spice, offer passionate kisses. Enthusiasm is vital, as proven by Reddit discussions.

Here are a few other ways that you can be enthusiastic…

Instead of hugging him when you are lying in bed together, grab his arms and try to pin him to the bed. Instead of waiting for him to change positions when you are having sex, grab him and put him in the position you want next. Check out the illustrated Sex Position Guide to give you a few ideas! Instead of being quiet during sex, whisper exactly what you want from him in his ear. The Dirty Talking Guide will give you hundreds of examples of what to say to your man!

When giving oral sex, it feels more intense for him if you are enthusiastically licking, sucking and slobbering over his penis like a woman possessed, intent on complete sexual satisfaction.

The Key to Sexual Satisfaction. To keep things interesting and pleasurable, it's essential to add variety and explore new techniques. Don't be afraid to experiment and communicate your desires.

Men crave sexual novelty more than women do, so using the same techniques can bore him quickly. The Blow Job Guide teaches various oral sex tips, ensuring he stays completely satisfied every time.

Elevate Every Encounter

Here’s why…

If you get to eat your favorite meal three times per day, every day, you will adore it at first. But as the days and weeks pass, you are going to start getting bored of it and will start craving different foods and flavors. Eventually your “favorite meal” will stop being your favorite meal and you will want something different.

Giving your man oral sex is similar to this…the prospect of getting a fellatio from you once or twice a day is going to sound fantastic at first and no doubt he will enjoy it. But if you keep this blow job routine, it will stop being so special for your man.

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To prevent this, you need to take the Goldilocks approach…not too much, not too little.

For some couples, this means performing oral sex just once or twice a week while, for other couples, it could be almost every day. It all comes down to personal preferences, sex drive, and desire.

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Location, Location, Location

Of course, there are obvious places like giving him oral while he watches TV, in your bathroom and in your car. But, there are also a bunch of other great places where you can give your man oral sex like when you are both alone in the wilderness.

Asking him to come help you in the kitchen, before dropping to your knees and surprising him with a blow job is going to leave him feeling a little confused…but also very happy. The same is true if you are both at a house party.

Start Small

One oral sex technique that regularly gets overlooked is “starting small.” Many students read detailed instructions like the Blow Job Guide, then rush to find their man and try out every technique they’ve just learned.

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This eagerness is understandable, but it’s also the WRONG approach.

You don’t want to give everything away at the start or your blow job. Otherwise, your man will have nothing to look forward to and it also sets his expectations sky high of what else you have in store for him.

Instead, you want to start off on a slow, but solid footing to grab your man’s interest by using some simple oral sex techniques on him. Then as you continue, you want to build the intensity higher and higher steadily using more satisfying and pleasing oral sex techniques on him. Towards the end of your blow job, you should now begin using your most powerful techniques on your man so that a crescendo of wild pleasure engulfs your man as he orgasms.

Think of it as a performance, starting out slowly, gradually building up the pleasure, before finishing off so that he cums in the most extreme way

The techniques I cover in Chapter 2 are perfect for starting off your blow job, before moving on to the oral sex techniques in Chapters 3 & 7 to build the amount of sexual enjoyment you’re giving your man. Check out Chapter 4, 5 & 9 for tips on finishing your blow job so that your man almost passes out from the pleasure.

Dominant Or Submissive

Let’s start with some ideas for dominating your man with oral sex…

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Restrain Him – Tying your boyfriend up and making him immobile before sucking his cock is an easy way to dominate him. Just make sure to use easy-to-remove restraints that don’t cut off his circulation. Two popular ideas are tying his arms to the bed posts or handcuffing his arms behind his back.

Push Him Down – An easier technique is to push him down on the bed or the sofa and keep your hands on his stomach so he can’t get back up again.

Another fun way to dominate him is to get in the 69 position, with him on his back and you on top. Sit right down on his face so that he knows who’s in charge and give him as much oral attention as he deserves for eating you out. Just make sure he can breathe!

Just make sure that you avoid using your teeth during your blow job as you dominate him. Most guys don’t enjoy feeling your teeth during blow jobs.

Now let’s learn some submissive oral sex techniques to use on him…

Get tied up – This one is obvious. It works best if your hands are tied behind your back, but they can also be tied above your head.

He’s in control – When your husband places his hands on your head and controls how deep and how fast you are taking him, he is firmly in control and setting the pace. Of course, it’s a good idea to talk to him beforehand to make sure he doesn’t accidentally hurt you.

Now that you’ve finished Chapter 8 of the Blow Job Guide, you may want to check out the previous chapters. I always advise starting at Chapter 1 and working your way through.

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July 11, 2016

jonique Chance says

So my boyfriend… When I’m giving him blow jobs I can tell that he really enjoys it…because he’ll grip my hair and grip the sheets, twitch a little bit and moan slow….BUT…I want him to moan loudd and call my name…if he’s not doing that I’m gonna think I’m not doing something right…..any tips on how to make him “roar” ?lol

Sean Jameson

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Hey Jonique, the truth is some people are more vocal than others. So your man may be a screamer or he may be as silent as a church mouse. So the best way to change this is to just talk to him and let him know how much you appreciate it when he is more vocal.

Ruby says

So my husband loves a blow job and I have been very through with learning all the techniques and learning what he likes even down to him feeling free to hold my head and set the rhythm which honestly, I love.

However, I feel we may be in a rut of blowjobs… blowjobs only… never thought this would become an issue but well, need some feedback on getting some payback if you understand what I mean. 🙂

Laura says

Sean…I’m with a man who is 37 years old and has never been able to come by just oral. I desperately want to be the 1st woman to do this for him. He says that what I do feels amazing and I’ve tried everything I can think of. Any ideas?

Any ideas?

Sean Jameson says:

December 2, 2016 at 11:08 am

Get him to stop masturbating for a month or two. He will become super-sensitive.

Jennifer says

Try incorporating anal stimulation with your blowjob. I guarantee you won’t have an issue getting him to cum. Mine was the same way and it works every time.

Chris says Put a finger is his bum

July 23, 2025 at 1:06 pm Chris says

Lauralee Wiltsie

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Sean, I read your article on maintaining a long-distance relationship and my boyfriend is serving a two-year prison sentence but won’t be out until October of next year. He is not allowed to receive pictures of the sexual nature but he can call me email me snail mail me and make videos for me. My question is how do I maintain a relationship of a sexual nature with my boyfriend? Do you have any suggestions? We have a type of code language that we speak to each other with when we want to refer to something of a sexual nature. For instance we were talking about a woman being shaved or having a landing strip and we referred to it as Landscaping. Any suggestions would be welcome period thank you for all the interesting articles in your newsletters and tips.

Sean, I gave my boyfriend a blowjob using your tips and they worked really well, and I want to thank u so much bc whe I started using these tips he said they r the best he has gotten but they worked so well that he kept twitching. He was twitching a lot and idk if that’s is healthy bc it seemed like he couldn’t stop. Idk what that is about really.

Cristina

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Am actually in uganda but dating a Norwegian two different sexual backgroundso but this tips have helped me to update my sexual life and spicing up thanx to u guys

Am actually in uganda but dating a Norwegian two different sexual backgroundso but this tips have helped me to update my sexual life and spicing up thanx to u guys

Am actually in uganda but dating a Norwegian two different sexual backgroundso but this tips have helped me to update my sexual life and spicing up thanx to u guys

Tiffany says: June 1, 2019 at 4:09 am.

I struggle when it comes to giving my husband head. I suffer from gag reflexes that can be triggered by brushing my teeth or sometimes simple deep breaths. I found for this issue Goodhead Deep Throat Spray works really well(also good for sore throats and tooth pain), but I also suffer from TMJ and my question is, does anyone know of something similar to Goodhead(either topical or oral) that actually does relieve pain for jaw muscles and joints?

Tiffany says: June 1, 2019 at 4:09 am.

I struggle when it comes to giving my husband head. I suffer from gag reflexes that can be triggered by brushing my teeth or sometimes simple deep breaths. I found for this issue Goodhead Deep Throat Spray works really well(also good for sore throats and tooth pain), but I also suffer from TMJ and my question is, does anyone know of something similar to Goodhead(either topical or oral) that actually does relieve pain for jaw muscles and joints?

SwingingSteve says

These are some good tips, but at the end of the day a lot of it is outside of your control.

Some girls can give an incredible feeling blowjob on their first attempt when not having a clue what to do.

Shhh

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Hi, I love giving my boyfriend head and he’s always asking for it, but We’re been together for a year now and I still haven’t made him cum without him masturbating into my mouth at the last minute or so. I want to be able to make him cum on my own. I’ve tried different positions, techniques, I love to swallow and give a bunch of foreplay beforehand and he seems very happy how we’ve got on. But not making him cum on my own is bothering me. I can go for a long time, but He can literally hold out 30 minutes.

Sean Jameson

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Ask him to stop masturbating for a month. He will become so sensitive that he’ll find it a lot easier to cum quickly.

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Says this is great! Even when the content is created just for fun, the outcome is satisfying. If you try to create something for everyone, your efforts will likely miss the mark.

I agree with you: I like this bible lol this book is good. It really taught me a lot and opened my eyes to the reality of the world. I have hope that it can also affect people around the world.

Cindy says

I need some honest advice. My boyfriend used to be able to touch my arm and start a reaction in me. We used to have sex constantly and it was really great. He could give lessons on going down on a woman. Now it’s like in the past few months we barely have sex. It seems like he’s not interested.

And I brought it up and he doesn’t see a problem with it says he’s tired. He doesn’t go down on me at all anymore and sometimes he’s really quick to just start intercourse after a minute of kissing. I’ve been very open in that we can try anything he wants, I have all kinds of lingerie, I’ve tied him up and blindfolded him, given him lap dances, give him blowjobs, even made my boobs into cupcakes for his birthday complete with candles.

This was all before the sex seemed to slow down and start to not be so great. I still try to do those things. I used to inisiate sex but don’t want to get turned away. Also he stares and I do mean stares at other women right in front of me when we are out. He constantly tells me I’m hot but I don’t feel so hot. Should I just give up?

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It sounds like you need to communicate this to him. We put together a course on sexual communication that you can read for free.

Donna Castillo

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I could have wrote this, are you still together?? Good thing he’s your boyfriend and not your husband. I can stand the looking at other women, communicate with him and being an open relationship that’s the way to go.

Monica J DeLong

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Hello I’m having the same issues as ruby I started reading your Bible and my husband was shocked he said I went from ok to a porn star and I actually deepthroated him and let him cum in my math and swallowed all 8n the same night for the first time ever but now that’s all he seems to want is head we do have sex but he doesn’t seem like he’s into it we have sex for a little while but he always wants me to finish him off with head he says your mouth feels like your pussy but there’s a young added it makes it better he said if my pussy had a young he wouldn’t know what to do but now he doesn’t touch me kiss me he hasn’t went down on my and that night I deepthroated him I did it with no problem he said that was the best head he’s ever had and that’s saying alot he’s been with alot if women and had alit of head but I haven’t been able to deepthroate him again I gag now Everytime I didn’t the first time could it be becuse I’m thinking about it and that’s keeping me from doing it I really want to be able to do it anytime I want he told me he has never had a woman put that much if his dick in there throat and not gag what can I do about being able to do it again we’ve been together 20 years so I’m glad you helped me be able to pleasure my man better we’ve always had a great sex life though no problems there

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My boyfriend loves to be deep throated, his cocked sucked really hard and for a while. Once he feels like he is about to cum he doesn’t want me to stop.

While I can do these one at a time or a few together. All 3 are difficult. He says I just need to practice. And he is well endowed.

I’m having difficultly sucking it really hard while deep throating at the same time. How can I do this?

Sexy mama says

I love Making my man happy i’m following you directions I’ll have to please him with Doing a blowjob on him , He seems to be in jail and all the pleasures that I do with him with my mouth.

The only thing I don’t like is that he Does not have sperm because he had prostate Cancel in this post state was remove . But he really do enjoy the awesome 6 that we have.